Freudian babe i know i fucked up8/3/2023 You know how best friends can be.It’s the waning moments of my fourth session with a new therapist. That's the advice my friend gave me, but I don't think he heard so much the "I lied to her which is a HUGE deal" part. Just looking for advice, and opinions other than "it was your money not y'alls.who cares what you did with it?". I fucked up, I know I did, and I deserve my consequences. But I'm just looking for y'alls opinions.Īlso, I'm not looking for pity. I know I broke a trust, and I have to make amends with that.and I know it isnt something that could ever get fixed overnight. She got upset (understandably), and I'm having to earn back her trust (again, understandably).but I keep worrying myself to the point of migraines and mild panic attacks that she is going to end our engagement and leave. So this past weekend she asks me about the money, and I tell her the truth. I didnt want to disappoint her,and I hate to the point of extreme anxiety (even just writing this out) when I dissapoint people and they know I'm a screw up. I knew i shouldn't lie (lying is a huge sore spot for both of us) but i panicked. Knowing how she felt about money management at this point, i lied and said I'd only lost MOST of it. She wasn't that interest in the money since she had her own apartment, car, and job.and she only asked the typical "what are you planning on doing with it?" type questions.Ībout 2 years ago, my investments fell through, and i lost it. I started dating a girl a year or so after and mentioned it to her. So as the title said, I fucked up and I know it.Ī few years ago, i came into a windfall and invested it. If you or someone you know is involved in an abusive relationship or would like information on warning signs to watch out for, check out The Red Flag Campaign. If a user has sent you harassing messages, please upload your screenshot to, and notify the mods via modmail. Users found to be privately messaging other users to circumvent this directive will be met with a permanent, irrevocable ban. If you wish to opine on the matter at hand, you are to comment on the post. No espousing rhetoric/linking to subs or content that is conspiratorial in nature, transphobic, anti-women/men, anti-LBGT+, that promote anti-vaxx or anti-science content, or contains harmful rhetoric against groups of people. No referencing hateful or abusive subs/individuals and content. We do not care who started it, or how deserving you think the subject of your ire. Please note that this is not an all-inclusive list. This includes, but is not limited to: Whore, ho, hoe, slut, bitch, idiot, moron, slut shaming (including "I can't get over their past"), slurs against someone's racial, ethnic, religious, gender or sexual identity. Insulting anyone (be it OP, the subject of the post, someone you know/used to know, users, etc) will result in post/comment removal, and the user being banned. No name calling, insults, or insensitive language ( details). Remember, the goal is to help your fellow human. Derailing arguments, jokes, fights, and moral whataboutism is not allowed. message us) before communicating with users directly.Īll comments must be on topic and focus on the OP, in good faith. Press Requests must be routed through u/eganist (via modmail. If you're doing educational work, message us with your IRB number, a point of contact for us to verify your pending research, and the details of your research for consideration. Surveys, information requests, journalistic and academic research questions must be sent to modmail here and approved prior to posting. You can submit an update post exactly once at any time after 48 hours has past from the original post. Things this sub can't give advice on: Rants, unsolicited advice, letters to an ex, "body counts" or number of sexual partners, mental health issues, medical health issues, legal problems, financial problems, any situations involving minors (under 18 regardless of local laws), and any situations involving abuse (violence, sexual, emotional etc). For what a moral judgement question would be please see this post. Moral judgement requests are asking people to evaluate actions taken or actions you want to take, in the context of right, wrong, selfish, or not selfish etc. No submissions giving advice, no links, no youtube videos, hypotheticals, general discussion/DAE/polls, adverts, or spam. Posts must contain a title that includes basic information such as ages, genders, length of relationship with text that has a description, a TLDR, and a direct answerable question.Īll submissions must request advice on a specific situation between two or more people. Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or basic human interaction: we're here to help!
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